"The trouble with most people is that they think with their hopes or fears or wishes rather than with their minds.”— Will Durant This isn’t an easy 3-step idea. This is more about considering a side of yourself and others that you maybe haven’t considered before. Here’s
“I’ve been letting other people decide who I am. I am who I am because of someone else. That sucks. It’s not my happiness, but someone else’s." This quote is from a client who realized almost everyone else was determining her value and worth. The idea
Why can’t we help some people? These people can be our own children, friends, neighbors, co-workers, or family. We think we do everything right, bend over backwards, go out of our way to meet them where they are. We are desperate for them to succeed,
"We repeat what we don't repair" -- Christine Langley-Obaugh There are a million things that could upset or bother us on any given day -- but they don’t. There are, however, some things that do. These are often little things that generate an enormous amount of
“Time doesn’t erase the demons you don’t see.” --Oblivion by Shinedown An adolescent complained to me recently how unfair their teacher was, especially in terms of expectations. I pressed the student to tell me why this bothered them. As with many of us, it was hard.
